14 SIMPLE THINGS MEN DO TO DECEIVE GIRLS
No matter how smart you are as a woman, you could still be deceived by a man because some of them are desperate.
Nevertheless, if you can understand the simple things that men do to deceive girls, it will be easy for you not to fall into their deceit.
Below are the simple things men do to deceive girls.
1. STOMACH ACHE :
This is the most common method men’s use to deceive girls, some men will be like if I don’t have sex my stomach will ache 😄😄😄dont be deceive my dear its a lie.
They will fake stomach aches and pretend as if They are dying just to gain your sympathy, if you believe him not having sex will result in stomach pain that means your brain 🧠 as been brain wash😄
2. SIT ON THE BED :
HMMMM😄 if you visit him for the first time and you can’t find a single chair in his room and he asks you to seat on the bed 🛌 be very careful it maybe trap. Some guy will purposely remove chairs from their bedroom whenever they have a female visitor.
They do this because it makes it easy for them to get into touch with you easily.
3. I am single :
This is perhaps the biggest lie men tell all the time. A lot of men who are either married or already engaged lie about their marital or relationship status just so that the woman can feel comfortable enough with them and go on to put their heart and their emotion into it. It is only when they are already neck deep in the relationship that they realize the man has been a lie all this time.
4. I Love you :
Men say this a lot. They believe that the fastest way to melt a woman’s heart is to claim you love her. And if you can back it up a little with monetary gifts, then it is almost mission accomplished. But a lot of times, when the I love you comes too quickly into the relationship, it is most times nothing but a lie. As the man is saying I love you, his mind is running riots, thinking about the fastest way he can get through the legs of his female target.
5. Financial investment :
Men are also fond of this lie. They lie about their financial strength, giving the woman the impression that all her financial and materialistic needs would be met. They would lie about their income and how much they earn, just so that the woman can feel assured that her financial needs are secured. But once they get the woman into bed a couple of times, the story changes.
6. I am working late :
This is another common lie you hear most men tell whenever a new side chick has come into the picture. Of course, the idea is to leave work as early as 5 pm and go spend the rest of the evening in the arms of another woman. And when wifey or the steady woman in his life asks, why are you not home home yet? The ready made answer is, ‘I’m working late tonight.’ If you investigate properly, you’ll find that he’s working late and hard alright, but in the office, he’s somewhere cosy with a side chick for company.
7. Source of income :
Many women have had experiences with men who lie about the kind of job they do. Often times, some discerning women who are puzzled as to the source of income of the man who’s asking them out demand to know what they do for a living, especially if he’s spending freely like it’s no man’s businessman. Usually, they lie about their source of income, especially if they suspect the lady would not approve. For instance, how would a guy who’s into drugs business or Yahoo racket own up to a woman he’s only just known that he’s into illegitimate business.
8. Special prowess :
Men are also fond of doing this. They fabricate stories about their exploits in bed and give the woman images of what she should expect from them if and when they decide to climb in between the sheets. They give the impression they posses some sexual prowess that the woman should be eager to experience. Often times, this works. And often times too, the women are disappointed. Such men do not go beyond 3 minutes!
9. Start with friendship :
Friendship is the best foundation of a relationship. Through a genuine friendship, you can let the girl you like to know who you really are without pressure and vice versa. It may be a slower process, but it is more solid than starting with a date immediately.
10. Be real in front of her :
Being true to yourself before the woman you like will make it easier for her to trust you because she learns what you are and what you are not. Pretending to be someone else may impress her at the beginning, but sooner or later she will find out her true colors and that would make her feel deceived
11. Introduce her to your family and friends :
If you are serious with a woman, and you want her to feel secure, then introduce her to your family and friends. This way, she would feel important to you and that you are not hiding anything or anyone from her.
12. Men lie about female friends :
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend/fiancé/husband hanging out socially with a good female friend of his from high school or college.
However, if his “friendship” with this person suddenly becomes a little more secretive, you might want to take caution.
13. They lie about being busy :
Some lying womanizers and cheaters do have a “conscience.”
Let’s say a liar meets you and gives you the misleading impression that he only wants to spend time with you — even though there are three or four other women he has on the side.
One day, he might start feeling like, “Wow, I am really playing with this woman’s emotions. I need to quit leading this woman on.” However, he just can’t bring himself to “come clean” with you.
SOURCE : BEASTNAIJA.COM